Eric Wilson
Level 6 Valued Member
As a father of a 17yo girl with a food service job, I think some of the menfolk out there need some advice:
- Don't ask her age. If you are think she might be a minor, she's too young for you.
- Keep your compliments specific. "You have a pretty smile" not "wow, you are beautiful"
- Consider your age. If she is under 21 she likely sees 30+ as very old. Mild flirting becomes creepy with a significant age gap.
- Don't ask for her number before you have established an actual connection.
- Remember, she can't leave, and she's being paid to be friendly to you. That increases your burden to treat her with respect.
Be classy, gentlemen. It's a small way you can make the world a better place.
- Don't ask her age. If you are think she might be a minor, she's too young for you.
- Keep your compliments specific. "You have a pretty smile" not "wow, you are beautiful"
- Consider your age. If she is under 21 she likely sees 30+ as very old. Mild flirting becomes creepy with a significant age gap.
- Don't ask for her number before you have established an actual connection.
- Remember, she can't leave, and she's being paid to be friendly to you. That increases your burden to treat her with respect.
Be classy, gentlemen. It's a small way you can make the world a better place.